My recent conundrum... I have felt disappointed in myself. I have been looking back on decisions or mistakes I have made in regards to every little and big moment of my life. I feel like we all fall into these states where we micro-analyze everything we've ever done. The largest rabbit hole to ever exist-- overthinking what is already done. While my thoughts wandered, I took a few days alone and really sat in this idea and came to a conclusion that I think we all need to hear.
We are in a constant state of evolving at all times. We are constantly learning from mistakes or wrong doings and my goodness, that makes us so beautifully human. However, realizing that what you have done in the past DOES NOT define you but rather what you've learned and how you have readjusted that tells all. Mind you, a lot of this work is done behind the scenes, so not everyone will note these changes and phases but all that matters is that you are in a constant state of evolution. Be your own cheerleader, because you are the only one that truly knows what you battle every day. I have been looking back on who I was all the way back to middle and high school and have been blaming myself for incidents that I have learned so much from. Learning things like, how to speak to someone you love, how to have those difficult conversations, how to adapt in stressful situations, and so many more things. I am not nearly the same person I was a few months ago, let alone many years. And it is because I have learned. I have adapted and I have changed. Be gracious to yourself, just as you are gracious to others. Allow yourself to learn from all that has crossed your path and all that you've experienced. Do not limit yourself to the person you USED to be. Things change, people change. Realign your worth as you change, readjust your priorities as you change, and learn to forgive yourself for things that happened in the past. Because without those challenges, you would not be where you are today. Thank yourself, because you have made it this far despite those things. We are constantly evolving and that is the true value that is held within the depths of life. Love you always, Bre <3
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